Don't be afraid how big your dream is....

     We all have dreams in our lives. I don't mean the dreams we are having while sleeping, but the things in our minds which we like to happen in our lives. Those can be big, small, silly, expensive, easy to achieve, difficult or anything. But have you ever afraid of your dreams since they are too expensive or else they are really big for your self?

If I tell why I think like this...I am a big dreamer, I normally have big dreams in my life. I had a dream in my childhood to build a nice big modern house. I felt it is a very expensive dream at my school age since I even didn't know what will happen in the future or whom will I be in the future. Or whether I will have a job or not. But I was dreaming about it. I lived inside my dream and the dream lived inside me.

Since I carried my dream always with me, I felt that dream push me to start working on it. believe me, it's true... I got some extra energy from my self to start my dream. I stopped dreaming the dream and started working on it. I had obstacles, problems while building the house. but what I learned was when I feel I need something, and when I try to get it, the background also prepared itself to support me. I don't know how it happens, but it happens. As example if you are out of money and thinking to get a loan and you are in a stage finding details of loans then best loaning option will automatically comes to you and help you.

You always have a way to achieve your dreams. If you really want to make your dream come to reality, then sure there is a way. First you have to start. without starting how could you end up or the things bring to reality? So just have a little plan for a period of time. if your dream is too big, then don't plan for the entire thing. just plan for a milestone.

Once you start.. then you probably grow up with your dream. when you grow up with it, you also get motivated and you will be pushed by yourself to achieve it. And of course if you have good friends around you, they will also help you to build your dream faster. and the other way if your friends are jealous of you then they will pull your leg. so it's up to you to decide how your friends you involve to achieve your goals.

Finally what I can say is...When you carry on chasing your dreams the paths to achieve them will come to you even without knowing you. Ultimately your dreams will be real in-front of your eyes. so dream it and start working on the dream.

Tears

Tears….

When you come out from my eyes

I can look at it

As my heart can do nothing but wait till you stop

But…

When you come out from some one’s eyes due to me

I can’t look at it

As my heart can do nothing to stop them 

Priority

Finding time for you from some one's busy schedule
....is all about giving priority to you.

If you have such people in your life, never forget them
and
...give priority to them in your schedule too..

I'm not in a fairy world

Cinderella..Snow white...Sleeping beauty
Lucky you had happy endings in your world.

The world I live has no happy endings
But still I'm alive loving your fairy world

Optional Parameter

Optional Parameter is a best option to a programmer   
But

Have you ever thought how the parameter feels?

I'm not afraid to fail till I learn something from every faliure

Failures can be everywhere any time. Everybody has failures in their lives. It can be in our personal life, career or day today life. Most of the people are afraid of failures.

Should we really afraid to fail? The answer may depend on someone’s attitude, the situation of the failure or the result of failure.

There are situations that we can think of failures as blessings. Sometimes we don't know we were not correct till we fail. Specially in your job sometimes you might be doing a wrong thing again and again without knowing it's wrong. One day you might get a bad result, a failure, then only you would realize what you knew was wrong. Then you will start to learn correct ways and follow. Really you can learn lot from that failure.

If you have courage to stand up with the lessons you learned from every down, then you never failed. You have conquered the failure.

Let Incidents Happen, Live the present moment

      Everything happen in life are incidents, but do we really consider them as incidents? The answer is "No".

      What is an incident? It's something happen and as the way it happen it finishes. If we think about everything happen to us in our lives, they are too incidents. whether they are good or bad, happy or sad they will over. but rather than letting them over, what we do is keep them alive in our minds. Specially when the situation is bad or sad  we think about it again and again and worrying. The happiness goes away from us.

     current moment is a present, that's why it's called as present. So accept that present. Live the current moment. It can be either good or bad. but remember it's also another incident and it will over.