Tears

Tears….

When you come out from my eyes

I can look at it

As my heart can do nothing but wait till you stop

But…

When you come out from some one’s eyes due to me

I can’t look at it

As my heart can do nothing to stop them 

Priority

Finding time for you from some one's busy schedule
....is all about giving priority to you.

If you have such people in your life, never forget them
and
...give priority to them in your schedule too..

I'm not in a fairy world

Cinderella..Snow white...Sleeping beauty
Lucky you had happy endings in your world.

The world I live has no happy endings
But still I'm alive loving your fairy world

Optional Parameter

Optional Parameter is a best option to a programmer   
But

Have you ever thought how the parameter feels?

I'm not afraid to fail till I learn something from every faliure

Failures can be everywhere any time. Everybody has failures in their lives. It can be in our personal life, career or day today life. Most of the people are afraid of failures.

Should we really afraid to fail? The answer may depend on someone’s attitude, the situation of the failure or the result of failure.

There are situations that we can think of failures as blessings. Sometimes we don't know we were not correct till we fail. Specially in your job sometimes you might be doing a wrong thing again and again without knowing it's wrong. One day you might get a bad result, a failure, then only you would realize what you knew was wrong. Then you will start to learn correct ways and follow. Really you can learn lot from that failure.

If you have courage to stand up with the lessons you learned from every down, then you never failed. You have conquered the failure.

Let Incidents Happen, Live the present moment

      Everything happen in life are incidents, but do we really consider them as incidents? The answer is "No".

      What is an incident? It's something happen and as the way it happen it finishes. If we think about everything happen to us in our lives, they are too incidents. whether they are good or bad, happy or sad they will over. but rather than letting them over, what we do is keep them alive in our minds. Specially when the situation is bad or sad  we think about it again and again and worrying. The happiness goes away from us.

     current moment is a present, that's why it's called as present. So accept that present. Live the current moment. It can be either good or bad. but remember it's also another incident and it will over.
    

Hopes Hurt...

 "Hopes Hurt"  It is what I think with my experiences. What do you think?

 The thought came to my mind while I was traveling by bus. Two hours per day in  the bus even without getting a seat gives me more opportunities to think. Feel it's a great change to fill "Ovini Thinks" blog  with more posts.

Everybody has different Hopes in different sizes. Recently I had two major Hopes. Those were not the only major hopes I had so far, but those two hopes gave me a nice lesson. One Hope I had was related to my career and the second one was related to my personal life. Since I was dreaming of the hopes I had no happiness around me.

 So... If Hopes Hurt.. Then we should do something for that. Yes I did it. Two different remedies for above two hopes.

Convert the Hope to Goal - I did this for the Hope I had in my career.  Yes!!! I was so much successful. Not like Hope, when we have a goal we should have a plan to achieve it. And when we follow the plan, finally Goal will come to us.

Forget the Hope - This is what I did for my second hope. As I feel; we have no control over the hope than looking at what is happening. If that is true what is the reason for being worried about something that we don't have control. Forget it and let the incidents happen. Ahaaa... Really great. My mind became cool.

If you have different ideas or experiences with regard to HOPE please don't forget to share here as a comment.